ordered another EGT gage mostly because of lazyness and 35$ is easier try a 3rd probe than fish new things through dash ect.
last trip coming home, watched it blink to 1300 then 1800 like an on off switch, so at least im 100$ confident its nothing to do with the truck and just stupid amazon parts being flakey.
i guess if it does it again, ill swap the cab parts with the two new ones ill have and then if that fails ill source a new setup.
because i like to do things 4 times the hard way.