Here is the Mrs approved plan:
Repair damage
Grill/Hood -- used from Harrison $275 post shipping.
DIY tube fender from Black widow -- $270 (all four fender/flares not just front)
Hood tie downs -- $16 because I went with pins. Don't ask.
Bumper -- $317.67 shipped (AtoZ Fab front bracket + clevis, rear builders kit, tire carrier kit + spindle upgrade)
"Upgrade"
Ruff Stuff Lower control arms -- $209.95 shipped (order 61434)
Lower control arm mounts -- $60 for pair Rusty's RC-LCM55
M4 time for LCA -- Mike?
Rear fender/flare -- part of trail tube kit
Lifetime LED Eagle eyes -- all marker/blinkers up front $80 including relay
Lifetime LED headlights -- not sure which one, but looks like $320 for the pair
That's the plan anyway.
running order info
$896.83 total
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$225.00 Grill/hood
$209.95 Ruff Stuff order 61434
$317.67 AtoZ Fab order 7543
$275(ca) Black Widow Gear
$ 78.27 Rustys Offroad 100034074
$ 15.94 Summit 9240512